You’re ready to get out there and date, but are you ready for sex? The gender divide is more defined on this topic; widowers seem to have more of an accelerated timeline (slippery stereotypes aside). Talking with the widowed community, encounters range from weird to exciting, as well as weird AND exciting. Some say they felt like a teenager again; while others experienced feelings of being unfaithful. How did you feel? For most, insecurities and middle-aged angst eventually give way to romance and adventure. Being held, being touched, getting naked, keeping it casual, falling in love. What’s on your agenda these days?